If your core beliefs about yourself are negative, you may notice that you give away your personal power. If your core beliefs will reflect your outer your reality. So if your core beliefs are negative you will attract people who will try to take your personal power or situations that will make you feel powerless. […]
Continue readingBe Real , Not Fake to people in your life.
I respect people who reject me right out, either by ghosting or outright telling me . weather as a lover, friend etc .If I am not a your cup of tea- let me know, I would totally appreciate you doing that and know you have enough respect for me not lead me on. Play mind […]
Continue readingHave a strong “NO.” and strong yes to Life, baby.
Having flexible external and internal boundaries are vital to healthy living. A strong yes and no shows you matter to you and others. It so important that you say NO and stop the things, people and situations that don’t serve your highest being and a strong yes to things that nourish your soul. It is […]
Continue readingBecome whole and learn how to truly love not only yourself. That way you can love your friends, partner and even strangers in true the true meaning of unconditional love. Let go of the idea of one, instead focus on the idea of attracting a loving people in your life to enrich it all, eventually including a partner will emerge.
It is true what they say, before you can love others, you must love yourself whole. The good, the bad and the ugly. You must accept yourself as a whole to be a loving source to others. That means dealing with your insecurities, trauma so you are not projecting your issue on to someone else. […]
Continue readingWounding, how to heal and grow from it
Each of us has a wound, we all deal with them differently and some do not. It so important that any psychological trauma be address in an individual. Studies have shown that people who receive proper love and care and support have a higher chance of healing. You do go through your own pain fully […]
Continue readingLa alegría de ser, La gioia di essere, La joie d’être,فرحة الوجود, mufaro wekuva….The Joy of Being
How ever you say it…there a powerful message of being presence in the now. Now is all really have. The past and future are non-existent. The past fades on and becomes a memory in our minds and future has not happened. We often live in a ego base thinking of past and future that causes […]
Continue readingNon-attachment Unconditional Love, a great concept
When I first heard of this concept. I was confused as fuck. What? Love your enemies, love the people who actively hurt others and you. Fuck That. That was before I really took the time to understand the concept. First I had to redefine the concept of “Love”. Love is what you experience with partners, […]
Continue readingShame: We all have it, talking about it helps us grow, heal and let it go
“Shame corrodes the very part of us that believes we are capable of change.” ― Brene Brown How many of you feel shame or felt shame? A great way to define shame is a feeling your whole self is wrong. If you grow up in an abusive environment, you received this message early on in life . […]
Continue readingFood for Thought
“Once again finding my inner strength had made me accept my situations,with no judgment, putting an end to toxic relationships. I was still ashamedabout how I ignored the signs that these were not healthy relationships,even when my gut instinct told me something was wrong, or not right forme. Even when the previous job I had […]
Continue readingCheating: It hurts but not the end of the world.
I remember receiving a message from the other woman saying my boyfriend and her recent ex-boyfriend, were the same guy. Like all women I was skeptical, I am going is this girl lying? Turns out she was not. My then boyfriend’s cousin girlfriend confirmed it. We became “Facebook Official” turns out he was leading on […]
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