This is directed to single independent ladies , have you ever told you been too picky and you’ll end up alone? The thing is if you settle but compromise your happiness then it is not worth it. If you are the only one compromising or it effecting your happiness why settle for a partner? Have […]
Continue readingThe Independent Women Flies: Gratitude
You know, Gratitude is super important to have. To show appreciation for everything is empowering. Mia V. ❤️
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Independent Women Flies: Too intimidating ?
Awhile back, I was told I was too intimidating for a man? I thought , they most be really blind, me intimidating ? I like cats, write poetry, sing, cry at sappy stuff , enjoy walking and coffee, own a home and have opinions and assertive, but I am not aggressive nor am I surrounded […]
Continue readingThe Independent Women Flies: Embracing you
Body positivity is something I love seeing. Us women have it hard we are always being judged from not getting rid of unwanted facial hair properly to our bodies be too thin, thick, round etc. You are the way you are, and love yourself for you. If you do not like something about yourself for […]
Continue readingThe Independent Women Flies: Healthy Relationships
What are your relationship like with others? I mean with everyone not just romantic partners. Your relationship in life define who you are. Are the friendship meaningful, do your friends encourage you to be the best version of you? Does your partner? Things to think about: 1. A healthy relationship is based on unconditional love […]
Continue readingStop comparing your life to others
My friend posted this. It struck a deep chord with me. Today with advancement of social media, we can now compare our lives to others very quickly. You tend to think wow this person as it all. They must be prettier, smarter, richer etc than you and it really comparison can start making you feel […]
Continue readingYou are not your mental illness, You are Uniquely you and awesome. Remember that always.
Society has not always been kind to those with mental illness. We all heard the “insane asylum” stories from our great grandparents time. We still have a long way to go but getting better. How many of you diagnosed with a mental illness have face some sort of discrimination , at your job ? Within […]
Continue readingMental Health: Why talking about it publicly is necessary for our healing
I find we have a damn if we do and damn if we don’t attitude about speaking up about mental health. I have been told that speaking about it will lower chances of getting a job, people will judge you etc. Well it’s true if you posted very negative things and that you are always […]
Continue readingHow to deal with Toxic People? Don’t let them go
Toxic people are individuals that you just do not jive with, that harm you or just drain you. They are the ones filled with drama, treat you badly but expect you to still like them or so negative they just make you feel sad all the time. Essentially they are really good at causing more […]
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