Told to her while asking to be seen as an equal. She was establishing healthy boundaries on how she wanted to be treated and for her writing not to not be returned so she can honour her word. While she did her and an ugly truth came to light – so she walked away from […]
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Happy Sunday: Self -Love Venuses Self-Obsession
Self-Love versus Self-Obsession: Self Love is practicing healthy boundaries for yourself, ensuring interactions are fair for yourself and others. Walking away from anything or distancing yourself from anyone or situation that is toxic even if you love person (sometimes our love ones can go through toxic periods where we need to leave them be for […]
Continue readingYou Are Uniquely You
I am uniquely me and you are uniquely you. Remember you are enough, Yes , You. As long you are mostly good to people, act with integrity and accept responsibility for your actions, you will have a good life over all. We often lack our own self-love and self-esteem in our lives due to circumstances, […]
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Relationship status unless we talk in person no one knows my love life. Job. You do not need to know the company name I work for or my job unless we are going out for mimosas together. My next move 🙂 These are three things I never post about on social media. It is no […]
Continue readingWhy is setting boundaries so hard
Boundaries are so important for building healthy relationships. If we do not have them, we risk being taken advantage of, bullied, being taken for granted etc. We often become bitter, angry, feel like the whole world is evil if we do not set them and follow through. If we do not have clear boundaries, communicate […]
Continue readingRise Up and Excel Baby
Wet eyes, broken soul. Life keeps giving hits. 1, 2, 3…dropping down to your knees. “Life you have won.” You think. Your wondering what have you done? Your self-pity party is on full force. Now, you a pivotal choice. You can continue down the road of self pity or you rise up. Your choice. Your […]
Continue readingPsychology 101: Attachment Style: What is yours?
Hey Sexy, Fearless and Fierce Followers, Did you know during your formative years 0-6, how we attach to our mothers and father determine our attachment style (emotional bond) to others in adult. There are four types: 1. Secure 2. Dismissive 3. Preoccupied 4. Fearful-Avoidant I was a preoccupied attachment in my early 20s and then […]
Continue readingBlog was hacked…again
Some jerk is good…Mia is a fighter -after this weeks should be hack freeeeeeeeee. It till then i am throwing ducks at this asshole. Mia V.
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